Threesome Tips—How to Make it Happen?

Relationships or marriage can turn dull after a long period of time of being with each other. At this time, introducing a third person in might be the solution. It can add some fun and excitement into your relationship. Having a swinger lifestyle is the most unforgettable experience for a couple, but it is also very important to keep it as a positive memory.

If you are going to have a threesome, communication is the key to make it happen. Before jumping into the bed, do not hide your desire and preferences. If you strongly oppose to penetration, do speak it out, or you will be in a dilemma caused by jealousy and anger. Set basic rules will allow you to have more freedom at the moment.

Where to find the third?
It has never been so easy to find a threesome partner with internet. You can go to threesome dating apps such as 3rder to find couple dating. Be clear with what you want and have some expectations for the third person. You can use some acronyms to make people clear with what you want, such as MMF, FFM, MMM, or FFF. In this way, you can find the third more efficiently.

I suggest that you should have a pure date first without any sexual contact. In this way, you can discuss what you want and have some time to get used to the company of each other. This will make your couples dating experience more satisfying, because you have built up some intimacy beforehand. I am not saying that you should be best friends with each other. As a matter of fact, I won’t suggest you to have a threesome with your best friends. When you spend some time to have a nice conversation, even if it is short, things will go a lot smoother.

You can also go to bars and clubs to find the third. The purpose is to find someone who are also interested in having a threesome with you. A clear communication is vital in the very first beginning. Without the internet, you are not able to know who are swingers and if she would even consider to have a threesome with anyone. Just follow your instinct and act accordingly. You might get rejected, but that is okay. Just try some more times.

Negotiation. In other words, have a communication together. Talk about kissing, oral, hand job, penetration and other things related. Come up with a safe code which you can use to suggest stop. Do not engage in any sexual contact when you are negotiating, or it is just a waste of time. Try to be honest with yourself and with each other. Openly talk about your desire and preferences and encourage others to do the same. It will be very helpful when you are really having a threesome.

After you have finished communication, you are all set for your threesome hookup adventure. Remember that having fun is all that matters.